Instead of talking about storks and cabbage, or other unlikely metaphors, because the kids do not say it like it is?

Two young people of the opposite sex once they reach a certain sexual maturation, attract each other hormonal causes, a common biochemical reaction. Obviously this is just one aspect but it is surely the most concrete, the rest, that the various visions and concepts, we leave everyone the freedom to do and think as they please.

Confine ourselves to the facts: when you reach puberty, which on average is between 11 and 16 years, young people are able to procreate or to conceive children through sexual intercourse. If such an event in the past could be considered normal, this is no longer acceptable at that age is too young and in fact, not surprisingly, is considered as sexual intercourse with persons of 14 years, even if consensual, while film particularly violent or sexual scenes too explicit, are commonly prohibited for persons under that age.

Age from all considered critical, which marks the transition from child to adult physical (and emotional psyche usually are structured later). In this particular period of life, the storm hormone strongly affects the psyche that, in most cases, is unprepared to handle the situation. Living puberty today is not easier than in our times, young people seem more calm and uninhibited about sex but are often ignorant and scared much, if not more, than they were the guys well over 25 years ago .

Maybe oral sex at school to see the fellow who is smart and is a recent phenomenon but at today's young people have other fears, falling in love, let go of the emotions or to suffer and live a more cynical sexuality , more calculating, sometimes even more mercenary, which often does not allow them to really discover the true meaning of the senses and the search for that expansion coscenziale which pleasure can lead.

If the kids once said "you have to do only with the person with whom you want to make a serious commitment," now says "you do not have to engage with the first at which you go to bed." The boys, of course, running to the letter. Recommendations are both absurd, but no one to tell them how important it is to listen if a person is able to be themselves, if there is a community and a deep understanding that goes from the physical to the mental and the emotional or if it's just a rash or worse than a habit or a pose or a need to show to others.

But we move on to the prevention of diseases and pregnancies.

As for the girls, the number one rule is do not trust the other, not shift responsibility to another. Translated into simple terms means: Take care with your care, if you know nothing and just use a condom, and learn to use it and handle it with ease and maybe a surprise we do with the mouth ... but not enough: if you're young and do not un'anticoncezionale take the risk of condom breakage is high, especially with young people full of vigor and little experience.

So good to know or learn at your own pace and do well ovulatory accounts, or you could be in trouble. In addition, ovulation does not always and not all come in as the 14th day in the books but can be between the 7th and 16th day in girls and irregular range of possibilities widens even more, starting from the days of menstruation up to the third week post cycle. A real disaster that is worth keeping in check carefully with the help of the gynecologist and hormonal, that between 15 and 25 years really have a meaning.

For the male speech is similar but different, of course, the condom should never miss in your pocket and all the flavors, try them all without shame, and learn to wear them do so without hindrance. But then is not enough if the girls do not have to trust you, it is reciprocal, so "do not worry I finished the last menstrual cycle" means that the situation is not under control and the best thing to do is enter in a different, or not in the vagina or even to backtrack because you are too full of sexual energy and the risk of not controlling the orgasm is too high.

Remember here that the pleasure may be made from many different parts of the anatomy is absolutely no risk, you play with fantasy. Only when you really trust a girl, knowing that it has a life of sexual promiscuity and take a hormonal contraceptive, you can enjoy a full vaginal intercourse without a condom. But only and exclusively in that case.

A complex topic that, that certainly deserves to be deepened without moral or malice but simply. Both the condom that hormonal contraceptives are very useful and absolutely essential in the sexual life of adolescents and young people, but neither system is without its drawbacks and it is often useful to use them both. But above all should know and use them immediately. Do not wait until you come white hair before a pregnancy test, may be too late.

The education in the field is totally inadequate, if not entirely absent from the classroom. We are the country that uses less condoms and contraceptives in general and holds the record for the highest number of unwanted pregnancies. And since we are at school the last century, an appeal is addressed to parents, not enough to say to their children to use condoms for doing their duty, even if the topic is delicate and the kids are usually timid in this regard . Buy them and keep them at home, you see the most elegant way to wear them, on the net is full of videos devoted.

Designed with the ovarian cycle and hormonal contraceptives how they work and which ones are most recommended, pills, patches, vaginal rings. Addressed the question not only of diseases, pregnancy and responsibilities, but also many possibilities to have and give pleasure without undue risk.

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Tags: contraception , sex education , pleasure , pill , condoms , puberty , sexual relations

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