The shortening of time to complete a divorce is one of the few topics that sees all the different foreign parties on the same side.

The proposed new bill to shorten the time of divorce by mutual consent to six months, especially in the absence of children or adult children is in fact close to being approved. The problems are between the state and the church, but certainly something will happen.

In Italy the practice of divorce waiting to be examined are engulfed the courts. The requests are so numerous that the current system fails to meet the demand. It 'has become evident that with the expectation the couple rarely showed second thoughts about their decisions.

Instead we can say we got two serious consequences: on the one hand, we find a paralyzed judicial system, that instead of dealing with more serious issues, he spends his time between cards and paperwork of divorce by mutual consent, the other to the reduced number of divorces 'years greatly reduces the number of marriages as well as the' revenue from the state of both.

A huge economic gap for the state coffers always crying poverty, but also for the national economy in general. In fact, making the divorce lawyer you can be sure not to run the risk of having a few customers and a limited stipend. Today in 2010 the marriage is still a huge business.

The attention to detail and the desire to live and share with your loved ones a fabulous day still remains the desire of most people. At all levels of spending to the fateful day is quite staggering. The evidence room, many trials clothes, makeup and hairdresser tests sometimes even all at once because you have to see if the trick is well with the dress, sometimes even the dress rehearsal of everything.

Nothing wants to be left to chance, everything has to be just perfect, we are prepared with meticulous care to the wedding, they are first, second or third. And 'a pleasure to which the majority of women and increasingly men are not willing to give up, whatever the cost!

It 'something that makes me think, it seems that the weather can make cool and weaken the' emotional feelings towards but the hope and the realization of the much-wanted "eternal love" is the dream of all and not lose ground on the forefront of life. Perhaps it is the discrepancy between the myth and reality difficult to make stable and long-lasting relationships.

Get older, you can learn to be less impulsive and perhaps to understand that control and hold off the storm of negative emotions is essential to not get into destructive dynamics, from which there is often no possibility of return. Also known more for ourselves and our tastes, you can more easily recognize what are the qualities that we want to see and find in our mate or companion.

The school of life teaches us, perhaps we should also teach our young people, starting right from the school where the whole is still lacking a well than minimal preparation for sexual life, much less the management of interpersonal dynamics and torque.

We are not perfect and we can not turn us into emotionless automatons like the movie Equilibrium for fear of destructive feelings of which man is capable. The imperfections of your spouse or partner, such as ours however, are the realities on which we can really learn how to smile and who knows, maybe even to get fat and loud laughter of trying to love them too.

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Tags: Love , desire , divorce , marriage

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