It is shortly to Valentine's Day, the feast of love, and I wonder we are in love? We still love, we also show our love with words or gestures, and we do not serve or be superficial and perhaps even stupid or conventional, something to be lovers, nothing really worth doing?

But I wonder ... there really is something more important than love?

If tomorrow if we put a few inches from our death, what we do not want to have given up?

The freedom of loving and being loved, to having lived with passion in our lives.

I believe that to express with words and gestures his love is something that is easy for children but that over the years is lost, only the lucky ones in old age, those who are not rigid and avviziti have the grace to return to this simplicity and are capable of sweets and kindness and affection, never granted in adulthood.

But what to expect, to be the eighties for Mostar what we want and what we are attached emotionally to the people we love? Just because at that point we will have nothing to lose? But what we have to lose after all?

The tickets written by hand, painted and broken hearts, the children's gestures like a flower, cook his favorite dish, go to a romantic restaurant that we love so much, a gesture from the simplest and cheapest to the most sophisticated and expensive, to each his choice, does not matter but wake up and do not wait for another opportunity to say "I love you."

You amooooo you see is simple. Young people today are afraid of love, because we do not believe, do not see it at home.

In fact, families often happens that men, in particular, are approaching with kisses and caresses one and only sexual intercourse when they try and seek him there, too hastily, with the minimum wage for women is rather preliminary, it is absolutely necessary for the pleasure, and then let go for pleasure.

Education for women, unfortunately, is missing so the concept of eternal pleasure in the name of "first duty" that often if you forget. It happens to live in many grievances against the husband or companion who came home from work fall on the couch or in front of the PC. They instead do the same, to feel free to say "I'm tired and I do not want to nothing, "continue to do even more than they should, recriminations and waving their weariness like a weapon dangerously sharp.

Classical dynamics are producing distance and coldness, a sense of frustration and insoddisfazone, such as to bring ourselves always at the center of our attention and not the one you love. So it happens that we want attention from the beloved, the man usually want more sexual attention and the woman more emotional support and attention.

Here clicks the infallible "does not deserve." It 's a terrible sentence to think about it, forget yourself and what you did not, and your unfulfilled expectations, turn the page, just dates and feel free to express what you want, remember that the errors of conduct are always bilateral and often unintentional and children of low awareness and habits.

Non-punitive and have the luxury of enjoying a healthy moment of pleasure and mutual giving. Valentine's Day can be an occasion not fatevela escape and remember that every day is good to give pleasure to those you love.

Happy Valentine's Day

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