Being sexually active
Posted on 10/09/2009 by Cathe in Articles |
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I often meet men but also women who report having no sexual desire, to be extinguished as from that point of view, not to try anything.
This situation is independent of age of the subjects in the sense that there is unfortunately also in relatively young women and men.
Well it is an alarm bell should not be underestimated because it usually implies a physical disturbance of the psychic and often important, such as depression. What is interesting is that these people are identified, change the skin, light eyes, the way of coping.
Being sexually active does not mean you only have sex regularly, say, two, three or four times a week is a vital energy that pervades the entire body. Being sexually active is to be available at this possibility but only in strictly sexual sense, if for various reasons, prefer voluntary abstinence, this is not to be sexually turned off.
E 'the desire that must not fail, the desire to penetrate the life and be inspired by life, extra energy that lovers know well and many priests and consecrated persons in God' a cut above, a force that enables us to gain momentum in new, enthusiasm in action, delivering results in the field.
His oppposto is closing, liabilities, how to refuse life as a slowly die day after day. This condition is accompanied by the classic characteristics of aging, it is easily depressed, tired and fed up with all or change any news is greeted with suspicion, and fatigue resistance. I can not do anything and you are not willing to do anything.
It is commonly said that those who love burns, it seems silly, but this energy exists, or it may mean losing it slowly or be sick already. Many men over fifty have the chance to rediscover their love and life changes completely; feel rejuvenated as they had twenty years. Others change their work trying to feed their aspirations and internal trends providing fresh fuel to the desire.
If you are turned off and discharges get busy, do not expect things to change out of you because it will not happen. Look for solutions, ask for help, try acupuncture, homeopathy, the schiatzu, martial arts, you must find pleasure in its various forms, you recirculate the energy, restart the engine.
It is not yet time to die!
On 09/10/2009 at 7:59 pm Valerie said:
Cathe you're right, there is still time to die.
But you must consider that your age when you are relatively young, typically there is not always engaged in successful marriages, mortgages to pay, children to raise.
It may happen that at some point i want to take a different direction from conjugal duties and then the situation becomes very complicated.
So complicated that it could be considered not very appropriate to be overwhelmed by a sentimental passion (or even sexual) affair.
You yourself in your post: "When the lover becomes a detriment" calls for caution.
On the other hand you can not have sex on command, or you, but it becomes a real company have it pleasure.
And then you said that you are no longer interested, maybe you are depressed, that things are not going to work so well, there are concerns that come up. I believe all excuses not to admit the harsh reality.
One more thing about that, "especially women." And believe it! If a man cheats on his wife comes out well or badly but if she is healthy enough to be the love ... is a big mess!
At least in this country and hypocritical bigot!
Not to mention that if you are nothing, nothing gets tired of the lover, he blackmails her saying that her husband will go straight to tell all. And you're sure of morons who come to much (and more) to avenge their miserable ego wounded there are in quantity.
In other words, a woman who betrays her husband is likely to be a slave twice.
Of her husband and lover.
In order for the sexual energy is released that should free the human mind.
Especially that of many men who still so difficult to understand that his partner is not a property.
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Cathe Reply:
September 14th, 2009 at 9:49 am
Thanks Valeria your caveats are an invitation to reflect, but do not think men also have their difficulties blackmail so too can indeed often their women are more devious and vicious blackmail! Private property and betrayed the ego in search of revenge is still a big problem for many men and women, but not all, thank God! Best wishes
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Valeria Reply:
September 14th, 2009 at 10:17 pm
Oh yes, thank God not for everyone. Anyway, I agree: too many women are possessive and blackmail.
But the roles of power are mostly covered with men and that makes a difference ...
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