The female orgasm: a universe to be discovered
Posted on 24/04/2009 by Cathe in Articles |
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It 'amazing to know that many women experience a strong unease, not about sex but in relation to their ability or inability to achieve orgasm. Many suffer and why not develop an idea of perfection.
While the man is afraid to reach orgasm too quickly or not having a valid establishment, she worries and fears of not reaching at all.
The dictionary definition of orgasm is as' the pinnacle of pleasure, "but there is no pleasure like any other, there is the same as another orgasm, female orgasm and certainly does not resemble that of men.
In fact, among the many things that are absolutely unbeatable in women, there is the possibility to have multiple orgasms also within walking distance of each other, which can enhance one another or to prolong the pleasure. I would say that orgasm is a kind of burst of energy but does not occur in the same way and we must also learn to recognize it and live it.
I think the problem is precisely the lack of knowledge of their body. By many women in fact, masturbation is practiced in a hurry, with endless guilt and without adequate education.
Most often the only female masturbation or clitoral stimulation preclude an infinity of possible, from visual and hearing impairments, to those of several palpatory penetrative and sensitive body parts and stimulated.
In short, we know very little and mostly practiced even less! We must learn to make love with ourselves and with our partner or companion, and you need to learn so much theory and little practice, I think. Of course we all know that making love is not just a physical fact, but an act magic, a precise and wonderful alchemy that all yearn for.
But before you run and fly you must learn to stand and walk. And it is from below and from the body and do not have to start from the idea that the prince's great blue and eternal love, stories that unfortunately still teach the poor children of today.
To start with the first steps is very useful to practice a 'regular physical activity that allows a first contact with the body, second wash often, fragrance, increments, and these activities are pleasure to speak again and help with our body.
Finally, when you decide to treat yourself to the sexual pleasure it must be done quietly, with inspiration and perhaps also with the support of some film adapted to our taste and possible aid instruments like vibrators and lubricants.
The lubrication of the female genitalia is not to be underestimated, is by far the most important thing to achieve pleasure, can be compared to male erection, the stronger the better. In addition, when very often there is embarrassment and tension, lubrication tends to be poor and inadequate, especially in women who use oral contraceptives.
Also lubricate the clitoris and nipples are very sensitive especially if it reduces the sensitivity and the possible discomfort on palpation.
Men of advice: if you want to help a woman to achieve one or more orgasms started with her mouth, talk to your desire and then baciatela: lips, ears, neck, breasts, buttocks, genitals perdedendovi unhurried your partner as if you were tasting a good meal. And maybe even better stop to return the relationship to orality and so on several times. The use of massage oil for those who had a good manual can be a good method. And remember there is no limit to the pleasure of a woman and there should be no hurry.
Advice to women not to think or to try not to use your head but the body, do not expect a thing rather than another, one position over another, a moment rather than another, a gesture or phrase Rite . Do not donate but please learn how to donate your pleasure and let go without friction, following only the pleasure. Let him lead you and not the contario.
In short, as in everything, really everything ...
"Practice Makes it Perfect"
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Tags: female orgasm , pleasure , sex , sexuality
On 24/04/2009 at 7:32 am James says:
Proposal 1: Add this item in textbooks for each school
Proposal 2: get a grant to the European community and send it by registered mail with return receipt to every Italian woman
you could change the world!
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On 24/04/2009 at 9:42 am Eshun says:
CATH, holy now, you should write a book, lecturing a group, many women will thank you forever. (After reading your article I am going to light my cigarette and take a shower) OLE
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On 24/04/2009 at 10:55 am marias gorettis olè says:
have always said that you become blind to masturbate and grow hair on your hands. She is a doctor who claims otherwise assures me that all this does not happen? assures me that masturbation is not sin, and then do not go to hell? Waiting for your reply and I offer my most cordial greetings
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Cathe Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 24:58 pm
Everyone is free to think whatever you deem wise and close to what we feel internally resonate as true, I can not believe that God is offended and punish me for eternity burning in the flames for seeking the pleasure in this body and heart that does not seem to look no further. For the blind and the hair to feel comfortable I can assure you, your computer is more harmful and the hair can be removed! Best wishes.
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marias gorettis olè Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
and the computer can lead to masturbation, sites that lead people to sin, which show men and women in strange attitude boobs visible film that exceed the limit of decency, downloaded films and put on the phone and seen in unexpected places is now to stop, we rediscover the purity.
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Federico Leopardi Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
And who picks his nose? It is unquestionably a penetration! But then, my nose is clean: renewed purity!
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marias gorettis olè Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 7:56 pm
no, your nose is one thing, the genitals are made for playing not to use children to do as a hobby on weekends, or to insert strange objects (as the doctor talking about vibrators) to confer an ephemeral pleasure.
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Franz Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
Hazard a guess: you're the result of a hallucination that somehow took shape in a golem that rages in cyberspace.
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Federico Leopardi Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 9:31 pm
Ah Siiiii?! And Clotoride?! Has no reproductive function! But if skillfully and lovingly touched, produces pleasure !!!!!! So if I am a long time, maybe it should leave the obscurantism that completely eclipses your mind and your heart that they are going to rush to the gate of hell ...
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Franz Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
The language is flying where the clit ... laughs! Take it easy Faith!
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Federico Leopardi Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 11:38 pm
Where did you hear about this? Yours? A teacher, perhaps? I like it very much! To me it seems a scientific description of a superior mind naturally sees what he tells ...
Franz and Cathe is so?!
Federico Leopardi Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
And another thing: There is no sin !!!!!!!
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Franz Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Yeah ... what a pity!
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Franz Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
We use the shower gel ... Vidal!
(Sorry ...)
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I Reply:
April 25th, 2009 at 8:52 am
Council then delicate intimate nivea intimate with chamomile extract and lactic acid respects the skin's natural ph lavado na na sugada has par gnanca duprada (local dialect) hello
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Jules Reply:
April 25th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Comment "autocommentante" autobiographical and I would say, dear / to me!
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Franz Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 1:57 pm
Manolesta, eh?
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On 24/04/2009 at 1:18 pm Luke said:
congratulations, you write very well ...
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Cathe Reply:
April 24th, 2009 at 9:34 pm
Thanks, I saw your blog, an important cause! Congratulations and "reread" soon. I've linked in the blogroll ...
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luca Reply:
April 27th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
thanks to you, I did the same for you on my blog ...
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On 06/28/2009 at 11:40 am thatsmypleasure says:
really nice article, recommend it to my blog!
Then vibrators on the market today are capable, through their form, to directly stimulate the G spot and clitoris and thereby facilitate the squirting.
Since I have not tried as I know most do not!
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On 01/07/2009 at 11:12 am Cathie said:
Will I read them interresse, the topic is useful. Thanks
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On 01/08/2009 at 11:57 am myloveandme says:
very good, all women and men should read these things ... a lot of problems and misunderstandings of torque and personal vanish like smoke in the wind.
Dialogue is always the best tool for every problem
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On 25/12/2009 at 11:37 am Louise said:
hello Cathe take advantage of this day to send you a big kiss conventional making you wish you a Merry Christmas
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On 9/2/10 at 11:30 am sergio says:
Good advice: everyone should follow them without false taboo, is the essence of our nature! I have always stuck it in a spontaneous and natural and her friends have always admired and thanked him and gives me great pleasure from their pleasure!
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