What to look for a woman with a sex
Posted on 03/06/2009 by Cathe in Articles |
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Maybe it helps to understand what to look for the woman and what the man from sex, to know how to approach and what mistakes you can make a wrong interpretation.
If a man would in turn write his "What I try to" will be welcome to leave a space for me.
The physical relationship is not easy to reach and it is certainly very important. You can have a good rapport and emotional but never fail to have him on the sexual level.
First, it is important how you start. I believe that there is no point beating around the bush too. That is to say that after a basic understanding and have a "sniff" it is important to pass a clear message that sex on the interest should not require an immediate response, but simply an endorsement, such as "possible / not possible." Certainly for many women get started with sex can be a problem experienced with the usual "only what interested him." But the most solid and lasting relationships I have found them with their initial approach explicitly sexual.
In the next step is important that the date and how is shared and scheduled time.
For the woman in fact there are a lot of little details that are important, from waxing to the dress, maybe the hairdresser. In fact, a woman should feel beautiful and attractive to give the best of it at least at first.
Then set the first meeting by mutual agreement with the municipality, clear very clear indeed, intent, suggest to switch to act now, time for talking, eating, may be later. Maybe a glass and a nice atmosphere to melt the ice as they say, will help. A lover can also become a friend, but it is very difficult for a friend becomes a lover.
Women, as all men know, are more mentally complex: it is therefore necessary to first give up their mind. Talking too much is likely to remain the woman on a mental plane from which he can no longer come off, but what most women really want when they think of sex is really letting go, drop everything, just surrender to pleasure, without fear, without rules, without being dominated without being judged, freedom of expression, being able to move from passive assets also absolutely complete, as in a dance of changing from one rhythm to another, gliding weightless driven only by passion, blood and heat of the bodies.
Why this magic happen I believe it is important first of all, mutual respect, lack of ulterior motives and the desire to give and receive pleasure clean, without wanting to prove anything. From men so you do not request a demonstration of determination and power, but an ability to simply be themselves even knowing expect and welcome, especially not by reducing the penetrative sex act alone but to all that set of games that absolutely erotic you can do with the body.
It is not an easy thing to be so, but no one teaches us how to do it! It 'so necessary as in all things go into that and be wrong, but only with practice and certainly not with the theory or the cynicism becomes possible to access the possibility of truly touching.
The magic that flows from a true and complete understanding sexual relationship then produces a very deep and even if it seems trivial and said, you already love, no matter what.



On 05/19/2009 at 5:08 pm Valerie said:
And I thought it was the first important friendship and dialogue, and I had the usual qualms about female relationship begins with a sexual fire ...! thanks ...
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On 12/13/2009 at 10:26 am the_highlander says:
I am always amazed when I meet a woman who freely expresses himself in bed ... (alas, never enough). The company presents man as the most expresses what sexuality because "there has always tough," but a woman who has many constraints when making love is truly a force of nature, magnificent spectacle for the senses, so that almost makes you thank you later, as if it was an honor to be involved and contributing cause of that show.
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sergio Reply:
February 9th, 2010 at 11:11 am
I fully agree it is a wonder that bring out the woman force of nature that female pleasure is nothing but weaker sex! And as you say there are too few, but little of anything better: experience and above all knowing how to donate gently.
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On 12/13/2009 at 9:24 pm valeria milano says:
I thank you on behalf of all women who want to hear it ... trust me! It 's a rarity to meet a man who expresses himself with frankness and respect this.
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On 20/3/10 at 4:37 pm Andrea said:
I agree with Highlander and Sergio.
I am 51 years old, and my wife until a few months ago it was the usual routine. I love my wife and I returned his love, but boredom in bed every time there was more 'was eroding and ruining our sex.
now we are coming up with different games and sparks and fireworks every time.
Now it 'her mistress, who said the times places and roles (without falling into perversion and sado type stuff). I discovered a woman who for too long repressed her fantasy sensuality, despite my repeated requests to modify a bit our relationships sensuality
hello
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On 4/7/10 at 12:37 pm Richard says:
I agree with you, to love a woman must know it.
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